Ես Եմ
Ես Փաթրիք Գազանճյան եմ, Մխիթար Սեբաստացի կրթահամալիրից, 12-րդ դասարան։ Արդեն երեք տարի է անցել, որ եկել եմ այս դպրոց, սա ավելի տարբեր և ավելի ազատ է, քան դպրոցը, որով ես հաճախում էի Լիբանան: Այս տարի կլինի իմ վերջին տարին, ես դպրոց եմ գնալու, բայց չեմ զղջում, ես շատ լավ հիշողություններ եմ ունեցել այստեղի ուսուցիչների և ուսանողների հետ և սովորել շատ այլ իրեր, որոնք ես չէի կարող սովորել Լիբանանում։
The Keys to a Successful Marriage
Sharing your life with another person can be a challenge, especially if you don’t have a lot of experience with relationships. Marriages take work, commitment, and love, but they also need respect to be truly happy and successful. A marriage based on love and respect doesn’t just happen. Both spouses have to do their part.
-What do you have to do to keep your marriage healthy and successful?
Before a healthy and successful marriage you need an healthy and successful relationship with your loved one .That’s where you start, not from marriage. You get to know each other, you go on dates, introduce your family to each other and etc. After that you choose whether you want to marry him/her.
-Do you think being honest or sharing your thoughts and feelings is one of the most important things?
In my opinion, sometime not being honest is the right decision, who know you might hurt your husbands’/wife’s feelings, I say you find the right moment to tell him/her the truth without hurting their feelings. I think sharing my thoughts with my loved one is important, since in the future she might be my biggest support to achieve my dreams.
-Is it important to tell your spouse that you’re thankful for having him or her in your life?
Of course I would be thankful for my wife for being part of my life, but I mean when your already married with him/her, doesn’t that already mean you want her/him to be with you till you die?
-Understand that it’s OK to disagree and it is important to be fair and respectful during disagreements.
I don’t know about being OK to disagreeing with my wife is important, since everyone has their own ideas, but we should be fair to each other.
-With work and family responsibilities it is important to make time for you two as a couple.
I mean of course we should have our own personal time as a couple but, it’s not really easy, the longer you live the more harder your life gets, you’ll need to make money to have food on the table, send your kids to school/college, and think about your future with your family. If I were to marry in the future, I Would work my butt off to protect my family, make my kids look up for me, and help them achieve their dreams, and if I were to see my wife working hard for the family I would work even harder so she rest, that’s the kind of husband/father I aim to be.
-Are you ready to forgive the mistakes?
I really don’t care about tiny mistakes, I’ll always try to hear my wife out what she has to say. Even if it was a big mistake like cheating or work problems, I’ll calmly listen to my wife to what she has to say, of course ill be made if it were something like cheating, but I still would listen to her so I won’t misunderstand her, and for the work I’ll help her fix the problems/mistakes.
-They are also more likely to respond quickly to each other’s wishes to make up after fights and repair the relationship.
Like I said above if my wife were to ever make a mistake I would stay calm and listen to her. Of course there will be times where we might fight for stupid reasons, but in my opinion, I don’t think that would really effect our relationship badly, I mean everyone fight with each other, and in the end we forgive and make up to each other.
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